After reading a chapter from Tony Robbins, ‘Notes From A Friend’ he talks about negative energy, negative people and how we can build up our tolerance so we can stay focused on our goals and dreams.
Tony Robbins, a highly acclaimed motivational speaker and successful entrepreneur, provides exceptional advice on the best 5 ways to tolerate negative people and succeed. This advice will also come in handy especially if you have a tendency to drift towards negative thinking about yourself simply because you allowed other people to plant the seeds of doubt and fear into your mind.
Using these best 5 ways to tolerate negative people and succeed, you will learn how to train your brain to fight negativity in your life. In the same way you work so hard to lose weight and keep it at bay, or to become healthier, it is possible to repeat the process with your mindset.
To this end, you can make your mental rays shift from the negative to the positive. And that shift will allow you to learn how to tolerate negative thoughts and people – otherwise they will simply get in your way to business and life success.
Best 5 Ways To Tolerate Negative People And Succeed:
#1 – Reading
Reading unlocks a great flow of hope and achievement. When repeated over and over again, it will plant the right seeds of positivity and confidence into your brain. As you continue reading books from other highly successful and inspirational people, entrepreneurs and leaders, you will learn how to adopt a positive mindset, which will make it much easier for you to see negative people and thoughts as who and what they actually are – ladders to success.
When others say it cannot be done, your books will inform you otherwise –that everything is possible. With the right mindset, therefore, you will start using the negativity among people and in your thoughts to strengthen yourself and strive to prove them wrong by actually succeeding. Of course, this will only happen when you read more motivational books – or books about people who succeeded even when the odds were highly stacked against them.
#2 – Listening to Audio
Audios are great sources of motivation. When people speak negatively around you, it certainly helps to have something positive to listen to. The positivity flowing from those audios you listen to in your private time, in the morning as you prepare to go out and conquer the world, and while you’re driving to work or just for pleasure will greatly enhance your life.
These audios will also clear your mind of all negative thoughts by reinforcing your beliefs in your capabilities, in your skills and in what you have to offer. I enjoy our audio library that is consistently updated to bring a multitude of positive reinforcement through developing me and my business.
#3 – Meditation
Meditation is another best way to refresh your mind, body and soul. It helps to eradicate all negativity – both from people and from your own thoughts – while compelling you to think positively. Similarly, it enables you put things into perspective and focus more on the actions you need to take so as to succeed. Whether you are employed or you have already taken the plunge and started an online business, you can be sure that taking the time for meditation will help you succeed.
#4 – Writing
Whether it is writing a to-do list of the actions you have to undertake during the day, or jotting down your thoughts and feelings in a diary or writing those blog posts, writing will go a long way in helping you learn how to tolerate negative people. It will, like meditation, enable you put things into perspective and understand that negative people are just there to motivate you into working to succeed and prove them wrong.
These same people that may have negative opinions or thoughts can actually be turned around and empower you to write a positive article, sharing it with your teams, customers and social sites. Speaking through writing is a great way to spread your positive intentions and allow you to succeed.
#5 – Watching Your Company
Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. Instead of spending time around negative people, start hanging out more with positive people. Their thoughts, feelings and great enthusiasm for life, business, and success will prove contagious. It will, therefore, help you start adopting the same thoughts, feelings and enthusiasm.
Get around those top producers and leaders inside your company or business that will help to lift you up to achieve greater things in your life. These people will help you to maintain that positive outlook and tolerate negative people so you focus on those things that matter and will bring joy to you, your life and to others.